You’re probably the back up lover if you find out that your lover only craves your attention only when he/she is down maybe emotionally or any other way. You’re like a sounding board every time something goes wrong
5. You don’t get the attention even when you know he/she is free
Week ends are more or less period you should get your lovers attention most especially after stressful weekdays but that only happens when you’re not second choice after all.